Teachings from Timothy Green

I cried when I watched 'The odd life of Timothy Green'

It's a story about how badly a couple wanted to have children when it was medically not possible for them to have their own. They wished so hard that one day they were blessed with the presence of this young boy named Timothy Green.

I won't spoil the mystery of where he came from but I will share what I took from the movie.

We take the things we have for granted sometimes. Not realizing that somewhere in this same world someone is wishing they had it. Women take giving birth to a child so easily sometimes ... It is not just the labour pain that endorses us as mothers , giving a life that means something to that child is serious business. Not just pushing it out of our once tiny veejay jay... It means growing up with that life we created and learning from them just as they learn from us.

Timothy green taught me (and his parents) about appreciating life as it comes...even if shit hits you in the face...you make chocolate chip cookies out of it. I have to admit as adults it's harder to do that. We preach it to our kids, not realizing that innocently they are the ones practicing it effortlessly. When Timothy's coach said he sucked at football...Timothy said "Good! That means I can only get better!" How many of us smile at the face of challenge? I know sometimes I would rather hide under the bed!

What was your defining moment in that movie?

More to come...

10 reasons to try

I tried and I like!

My mama always said, "try it, you might just end up liking it". That is so true in so many instances. For example, eating durians...hated the smell, but once I tried it, I couldn't stop! Shopping...tried it and of course cannot stop la! hah!

Watch out for more information on this post!

Can't wait?

Hardy har har

Ask me then...

Breast is Best

I love breastfeeding!

Eversince I had my first child, I breastfed till she was 18 months; and my second for 12 months and now my new born baby...lets see how long he wants me for. I'm a strong advocate for natural feeding simply because its a win win situation for both baby and mummy. The benefits of breastmilk is not only endless but proven. From a health perspective, breastfed babies tend to be less colicy, stronger bones, less likely to get sick. Of course, from the nurturing point of view, the emotional bond between baby and mummy is said to be closer. Then from the mummy's point of view, its a win situation where she can feed anytime, anywhere. She doesn't have to worry about bringing a huge carrier with thermos and milk powder everywhere. Of course, grandpa cannot take the baby for a holiday without his mummy. Yea!

Over the course of motherhood, I have gained some useful insights on how to produce more breastmilk. Some advise are really crazy but I did them anyway. Hey, you'll never know if you don't try! So what I can share is what I have personally tried and works for me

Food for the breast

Don't try to diet while you're breastfeeding. Breastfeeding moms tend to lose weight naturally anyway. Drink plenty of fluid; between 6-8 glasses a day. You need a minimum of 1800 calaries a day while you're lactating so eat plenty of fresh fruits and vegetables and a decent amount of proteins and carbs.Try to limit your intake for sweet stuff...i did say "try".

Herbs like fenugreek, fennel seeds are a great source of iron, calcium, vitamins and minerals and can be added to many asian dishes easily. Be wary not to take too much as it can be mildly dieuretic and you may end up losing water. Lentils or dhals, together with lady's fingers are believed to assist in producing more milk in your body. Almonds and cashews are said to aid breastfeeding too.

Read more: http://www.babycenter.in/a1049926/foods-that-help-increase-breastmilk#ixzz2EYHCcbhX

Massage for the breast

Try massaging the breast gently as you nurse. This can help the rich, higher calorie hindmilk let down more efficiently. Using breast compression is an simple, easy, and effective way to help your baby get more milk. Here’s a video that shows Dr. Jack Newman helping a mom use breast compression to help a baby get more milk as she nurses: 

http://www.youtube.com/watchv=RymUDeCAt18&feature=related

Brasserie for the breast

If I wasn't a self testimony, I wouldn't have believed it! It came by chance when I started wearing this amazing corset to help me regain my pre-pregnancy shape. I was so surprised when my breastmilk was constantly filling up every 2-3 hours. I know when our baby feeds on demand its easy to get a let-down often. Before I wore this premium beautiful corset, I expressed twice a day but after a week of wearing it, I could express my breastmilk 3 times a day with an increase from 3 ounces to 4 ounces each time.

Whatever the remedy or antidote, we as moms would definitely find means and ways to give the best for our babies. Its a natural instinct!

Share your thoughts and 2 cents worth. 

Leave me a comment... from one mummy to another

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Money Madness

I don't want to worry about money!

Wouldn't it be great if you didn't have to worry about spending your money? I'm not saying we should be 'boros' ie splurge without a care in the world; I'm just saying it would be nice to know that you can be a shopaholic and know that there is enough to pay the bills and childrens' school fees.

I used to worry about things like this all the time. I have a job that pays. True. But I want more. I want to be able to shop till I drop without having to sign up for shopaholic anonymous. Hah! I want to give my children quality education by providing them with the right tools; I want a house I can call my own with a big island kitchen overlooking the garden; I want to whisk my husband a surprise trip to Paris for our anniversary; I want to take my entire big rowdy family on a road trip around Malaysia without having them spend a single cent. That's not too much to ask right?

All these shall remain a dream if we don't work towards actually getting it...like putting a down payment on a house or buying that ticket to Paris. Action speaks louder than words. While money is not everything...EVERYTHING is money!

Eversince I took that leap of faith, I have been silently pleased with myself. I have been able to earn an extra 4-figure income over and above my usual salary. In fact, I'm on my way to earn 5-figure income soon. Its crazy right! I always thought that if you wanted to make that kindda money, you'd have to work 2 jobs, virtually 24 hours. But not me! Not this new business venture that I'm in. This business venture allows me to work and play at the same time. I'm meeting people that I enjoy to be in their company; I'm talking about things that are dear to my heart and works for me.

I mean, what business allows us to do what we like? 

What business allows us the flexiblity of time? 

What crazy business gives us high returns on our investment? 

Its mind boggling! But I'm smiling coz I did it! 

The best part is that I make my own schedule to suit my current lifestyle. By doing so, I'm raking in all these mulla!!!

If you're still wondering...

Just pick up the phone and call me

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or email me if you're shy

lynnshukor@gmail.com

How to get a date...with your spouse

I miss going out on a date! 

Let's face it, when you've got office deadlines, household chores and kids in tow, who has time for a date night? You'll be lucky to have a quite dinner in front of the tv because the kids went to bed early that day. As much as we are tired to do all these obligations, we must never forget that we are first man and woman who need a bit of 'us' time too. Sometimes we are so busy playing the role of a mother and household manager, we take for granted our role as a wife and companion to our husband. Sure it's easy to find excuses not to make the effort, after all most husbands come home, put their feet up and watch tv waiting for dinner to be served. While we on the other hand, put our handbags down, put on our aprons and at the same time listen to our kids telling us how their day went.

Let's not start putting our lipstick on only when our husband starts looking elsewhere. Once he's distracted it's an uphill task. Lure him, tease him, treat him like he's king but most of all show him that he's still a man. Boost his ego! Yes, I know some of you are rolling your eyes already. But ladies, isn't he the man who once bought you flowers, seranade a song or two and even (then) bought you expensive gifts? So it's worthwhile to rekindle that romance even if it's just for one night, right? 

So what are you waiting for? Strap on those heels ladies!

Step 1

• Greet him with a smile followed by a soft peck on the cheeks and another one the neck. Tell him it's been ages since you've gone to your favourite restaurant... Or mamak stall. Suggest (don't instruct, men hate to be told what to do...they have their mothers to do that) one day of the week that you know is convenient for both of you. 

Step 2

• For the days leading to the date, tell him how excited you are. Reminisce the last time you guys did this sort of thing. Send him an SMS saying you can't wait for the day. Please don't include in that SMS your grocery list or what the kids did. 

Step 3

• The date! Wear something nice or new or throwback blast from the past outfit. Anything that makes you feel confident and that doesn't say 'I'm just a mom who hasn't waxed in ages'. Then complement him on his attire even if he forgets to take a second look at you. Make sure you spray some nice perfume that makes him wanna sniff you even more. 

Step 4

• The minute you guys step out of the house, no more talking about the kids or that the house roof is leaking! Take a moment to conjure topics from the past, and touch personal issues like looking at him and saying ' you haven't changed one bit since the day I started going out with you'. It may be awkward and seemingly choreographed but lets face it we all need a little 'help' to turn on the magic again! 

After that, the floor is yours!

Enjoy.

Note:

Ladies, having a good night out doesn't always have to be fine dining ya. You can have a blast going bowling if that's what you both used to do. 

Annaseskey Attraction

I love Annaseskey! 

Who does not want to be photographed by Annaseskey? Anyone who loves photography will love Annaseskey creations. Anyone who appreciates art will love Annaseskey's work of art. In short, anyone in their right frame of creative mind, will without a doubt love Annaseskey pictures. 

They say pictures speaks a thousand words. When you look at annaseskey pictures you will actually be lost for words. You don't know whether to cry because it's so breathtaking or to hug him because he is able to capture your very soul in his portraits. Annaseskey's ability to transform his subject into something they never thought they could be simply blows you away. 

Just look at some of the people he has photographed - Dato Siti Nurhaliza, Salhazain, Diana Danielle.... The list goes on. And now, he'll be photographing moi! Me! Plain old me! Woohoo!!! Ooh ooh... I'm nervous just thinking about it. What should I wear? Will he make me look like a star? 

Please Annaseskey, turn your flash and click on me!